Farewell Cousin Romania
My dear relatives and friends, there is no way around grief only through. Matthew 5: 4, “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.”
Today, it’s an honour to celebrate the wonderful life of our dearest Ramana Breedy. For those of us who knew her, she would have wanted us to have a smile on our faces and to be positive because that was who she was. For my siblings and me, we knew her as Cousin Romania because that’s what we grew up hearing our aunts and uncle, from Lloyd and Carmen Syfox clan, referred to her as. They had a very close bond as they grew up together. As a child, I recalled when she visited my Granny (Carmen), she and my aunts, especially Dianne (Trixy), would spend hours talking and laughing. In my eyes they were like sisters. I recalled twice my grandmother took me to Corentyne in Berbice, Guyana as she visited Romania and while they chatted and laughed heartily, her son Eddie and I (We call each other Cuz) played outside.
As destiny would have it, when cousin Romania migrated to the British Virgin Islands in the early 90s she didn’t forget her cousins. She sent for Dianne who in return sent for other family members including my eldest sister Gwendolyn. In other words cousin Romania was our family’s “trail blazer.” It was she who led the way out of Guyana to the Virgin Islands and North America for my relatives. Cousin Romania was always fun to be around, she looked at life as a glass half full. She had a huge heart that was always kind to others and her wonderful smile comforted anxious souls around her. For those and many more reasons she remains highly respected and loved deeply.
Cousin Romania your memories will live on and celebrated through the generations, current and to come. You have certainly left a mark in my heart, and nothing will ever erase it. You have fought a good fight and you have finished the race. So farewell to you as you rest in Christ’s Eternal Peace.
Alexis Carter-Semple
Daughter of the late Janet Carter nee Syfox