Birth date: May 31, 1968 Death date: Aug 2, 2015
LYVERS, Dorren Rivera, 47, passed away August 2, 2015. Dorren was a loving wife, devoted mother, beloved sister, daughter, aunt, and friend. Left to cherish her memory are; Terry, her husband of 20 years, children; Shelby Centers, Read Obituary
Mark Anthony, singing off key, and the smell of fresh buttery pancakes as your dancing in the kitchen .
That was you
Hola Mami...I can't sleep and you crossed my mind. You cross my mind a lot. And a lot has and is happening that I wouldn't even know where to start. I wish I could call you and just...talk. My depression is hitting and it's hard to care about anything right now. I know you'd tell me things will be okay, or that it'll pass. I miss you cuddling up in bed with me during those moments and just being there. Thank you for being my mom, my rock, my big me. I hope you knew how much I adored you. You deserved so much more than life gave you.
I miss you eternally.
Your mini-me
I hear you singing" just keep swimming" in my head . It's almost 10 years but still carrys the laughter and love with it .
Puki R lit a candle in memory of Dorren Lyvers
Hi mami...It's kinda ludicrous how life works sometimes. The last time I wrote to you I was having a medical scare with Asia but we were getting through it and she was okay. The following month? Rocket died. It was traumatic and in some ways..in a lot of ways really..reminded me of how things ended with you. I was CRUSHED to say the least and the first several days I could barely leave my room without breaking into shambles. Me and Drew worked so damn hard this year to make sure we could get Asia her house with a big yard. We did it! I own and home, me and Drew - together. It's older, but it has good bones and it's ours. Asia loves the yard, we have some strays that are cute and took a liking to us. With all good things come not so great things. And this brief moment of familial bliss was poofed away. On 11/29 we took Asia to the vet. Long story short she has a large splenic tumor that resulted in pneumonia and docs are pretty sure it is cancerous. Regardless she isn't a good candidate for surgery and it wouldn't really extend her time by much. It was a tough decision I made on the spot. I couldn't put her through that, I won't and I refuse. I made the decision to have Asia spend her last month with us taking care of her before we say our goodbyes with her in our home. Hearing her cough has me on edge, making sure she's eating and drinking, bowels are still doing what they need to. Is this what it felt like with me.? Because it SUCKSSSSSS. I'm trying not to shut down. I just feel like I'm losing another presence in my life. I know I'll be okay but geez...I wish I could get a hug right now, that Asia could get one more pet from you. I know you'll look after my mama dog. I miss you. I already miss her.
Hey ma! Its been one hell of a month. Had a brief medical scare with Asia. Don't worry, she's doing much better. Turns out she has old doggo vestibular disease. Shes on meds for a few more days though and she hates it lol. Shes getting acclimated to walking again. She still stumbled cause her balance is theown off, ya know? We tale her outside in a wagon which she absolutely loves, it is THE CUTEST thing. Me and Dreward have a whole system for taking her out and it feels almost comical hahah. I miss you and sometimes just wish i could call you to talk about things ya know? Being an adult is wildddd. But im here and im doing it and i have a wonderful hooman to share in its wonders. Still, hugs from you and abuela would really come in handy. Love you.
I really miss you. It's the start of a new year without you and now? Also without abuela. My two favorite people gone and idk if I've ever felt more alone. I'm glad you guys don't have to suffer anymore and I don't really believe in the diaper baby in the sky, but if there ever was any kind of Supreme being I would hope that they let you, Abuela, and grandpa reunite peacefully in some form of the afterlife. Corny ma I know 🥲 You told me when I was little that when you died you didn't want me to feel sad, that feels like such a big ask because I can't help it. In any news, Asia is just as precious as ever lol she's such a chonk. When I look at her I can still see that little puppy I got for the first time. Her and the cat are besties. Well he thinks they are anyway! Anywho sorry for the sappy memo. Enjoy this photonof the fur babies. I love you, always.
I miss you..tell abuela I said te amo..
Feliz Navidad mami...2014 was the last Christmas we spent together - I'm glad it was a nice one. I miss you... I saw abuela, grandpa, and tio Dwight yesterday! Abuela made some yummy food I had the pleasure of trying 😋
I miss you, and wish I could hug you this year...maybe in the next life eh?
With love,
Forever your eldest
